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This site is dedicated to the art and science of promoting understanding and compassion for ones self and other people. Reading People is part of an ancient stream of knowledge which has recently resurfaced.

The system views humanity as being composed of recognisable types which have been observed and referred to throughout history. Each type has particular physical characteristics and with practice one can assess the type of another person on first meeting them. This offers uncanny insight into someone's tendencies, their strengths and weakness and probable reactions when under pressure.

In our era of globalisation and instant communication we need this perennial wisdom more than ever.
It is vital for us to understand ourselves and other cultures both quickly and at a deep level in order to interact effectively. Applying this knowledge personally, professionally and internationally promotes harmony and respect and enables each of us to make our unique contribution to society.

Western science studies phenomena through specialization; dismantling and separating the cosmos into ever smaller compartments. Ancient sages sought synthesis – finding connections in which elements of the cosmos reflected each other.

As a child I was fascinated by the Apollo mission and especially the buggy built to drive on the Moon. It had to meet very specific requirements; to function with less gravity and to cope with Moons surface. Each of us has a vehicle which we are operating on planet Earth and to know the vehicle means we can find ways to flourish in harmony with its capabilities.

To judge and try to change the vehicle is pointless – the vehicle cannot change the vehicle any more than your car can change its own tyre! Simply viewing the characteristics of ones vehicle objectively changes the relationship between ones Self and the vehicle and offers new ways to respond to one's life experience.

It is also useful to separate hardware from software -
Our type is the hardware that we inhabit and cannot be changed any more than we can change the colour of our eyes.
Our software is our life experience, culture, education and attitudes. This we can develop and evolve through training and the choices we make. We will always be expressing the software through the hardware. Our software can mitigate some of the limiting tendencies of our type and ideally, complement and express the strengths. If we are in a situation or occupation which is fundamentally unsuited to our type then this awareness can be a powerful stimulus to make beneficial changes.

reading people typesBenefits of applying the system

Personally
• Self acceptance
• Celebrating our strengths and qualities
• Refraining from pressuring ourselves to be different, no more forcing a square peg into a round hole
• Choosing our responses rather than reacting from habit
• Recognising our automatic likes and dislikes

In Relationships
• Accepting other people as they are
• Valuing the contributions that different types make
• Stepping back from habitual disagreements
• Dissolving unconscious patterns
• Bringing space and humour and ease of communication

Professionally
• Transforming team dynamics
• Getting people on the right seat on the bus
• Finding a shared language for new understanding
• Effective tools for conflict resolution
• Ensuring all parties have a voice in discussions

Globally
• Sending the best representative to another culture
• Free flowing communication
• Delighting clients from other cultures
• Avoiding misunderstandings
• An edge in negotiations

The potential uses of this system are far reaching with the added bonus that it is hugely enjoyable to learn and apply; there is nothing funnier than human nature. With ongoing application, the knowledge becomes practical, liberating and life affirming. One is left with a sense of awe and wonder at the depth, power and potential benefits available.
In verifying the concepts for yourself you invite their strength, poetry and mystery to bring harmony and humour to all areas of your life.

To discuss any of these programmes, call +44(0)7746 830919 or email.

 

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"The management team had a great time learning this unique high impact material. They found it eye opening, as well as highly practical in the workplace. We came away with a better understanding of ourselves, our clients and each other. Many in the group found insight into their personal relationships and felt they could now understand their partners and children better.”"
– Chris Davis, CEO Dunlop Systems & Components Limit
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