Welcome
This site is dedicated to the art and science of
promoting understanding and compassion for ones self and other people.
Reading People is part of an ancient stream of knowledge which has
recently resurfaced.
The system views humanity as being composed of recognisable types which
have been observed and referred to throughout history. Each type has particular physical characteristics and with practice one can assess
the type of another person on first meeting them. This offers uncanny
insight into someone's tendencies, their strengths and weakness and
probable reactions when under pressure.
In our era of globalisation and instant communication we need this
perennial wisdom more than ever.
It is vital for us to understand ourselves and other cultures both
quickly and at a deep level in order to interact effectively. Applying
this knowledge personally, professionally and internationally promotes
harmony and respect and enables each of us to make our unique
contribution to society.
Western science studies phenomena through specialization; dismantling
and separating the cosmos into ever smaller compartments.
Ancient sages sought synthesis – finding connections in which elements
of the cosmos reflected each other.
As a child I was fascinated by the Apollo mission and especially the
buggy built to drive on the Moon.
It had to meet very specific requirements; to function with less gravity
and to cope with Moons surface.
Each of us has a vehicle which we are operating on planet Earth and to
know the vehicle means we can find ways to flourish in harmony with
its capabilities.
To judge and try to change the vehicle is pointless – the vehicle cannot
change the vehicle any more than your car can change its own tyre!
Simply viewing the characteristics of ones vehicle objectively changes
the relationship between ones Self and the vehicle and offers new ways
to respond to one's life experience.
It is also useful to separate hardware from software -
Our type is the hardware that we inhabit and cannot be changed any more
than we can change the colour of our eyes.
Our software is our life experience, culture, education and attitudes.
This we can develop and evolve through training and the choices we make.
We will always be expressing the software through the hardware. Our
software can mitigate some of the limiting tendencies of our type and
ideally, complement and express the strengths. If we are in a situation
or occupation which is fundamentally unsuited to our type then this
awareness can be a powerful stimulus to make beneficial changes.
Benefits of applying the system
Personally
• Self acceptance
• Celebrating our strengths and qualities
• Refraining from pressuring ourselves to be different, no
more forcing a square peg into a round hole
• Choosing our responses rather than reacting from habit
• Recognising our automatic likes and dislikes
In Relationships
• Accepting other people as they are
• Valuing the contributions that different types make
• Stepping back from habitual disagreements
• Dissolving unconscious patterns
• Bringing space and humour and ease of communication
Professionally
• Transforming team dynamics
• Getting people on the right seat on the bus
• Finding a shared language for new understanding
• Effective tools for conflict resolution
• Ensuring all parties have a voice in discussions
Globally
• Sending the best representative to another culture
• Free flowing communication
• Delighting clients from other cultures
• Avoiding misunderstandings
• An edge in negotiations
The potential uses of this system are far reaching with the added bonus
that it is hugely enjoyable to
learn and apply; there is nothing funnier than human nature.
With ongoing application, the knowledge becomes practical, liberating
and life affirming.
One is left with a sense of awe and wonder at the depth, power and
potential benefits available.
In verifying the concepts for yourself you invite their strength, poetry
and mystery to bring harmony and humour to all areas of your life.
To discuss any of these programmes, call +44(0)7746 830919 or email. |